breakups..

All of us wanted 2008 to be a great year for ourselves, but how much exactly can we control? none in fact.. it is only January and i received 2 bad news. 2 of my close friends have ended their relationship with their boyfriends. the period of time they have been together seems so insignificant when both parties have decided to end the relationship.. dont know why when i was on the phone with jr today and after she put down the phone, i felt especially down and i broke down in the cafe i was in with aloy.. dont know why but everytime sad stuff happens and i talk to her, i feel this sense of peace. i pretty sure it's coz of her faith. as a christian , for me personally i feel that she can give me that bit of comfort, but the biggest source of comfort comes from GOD, coz when the whole world decides to break off with us, the only one who is the always there regardless of the circumstances is GOD. thank u aloy for reminding me that. i just feel so sad for my friend who have decided to end the relationship coz i thought u guys would last. :( i just felt this overwhelming wave of emotions suddenly man.. like so sad and everything.. LOVE is so fragile. it takes so much effort to build up but it takes just one decision to end everything.. sigh.. hey, i know it's stupid to be talking about all this when u guys are not together anymore but i guess that doesnt matter anymore.. i just want u to know that i'll always be there for u, a shoulder for u to cry on, a hug to give ..try to cheer up ok. i know it's very difficult but i'm sure u will make it through and find someone better :D *hug* smile after reading my post ok.. :)